If you’ve felt like the version of faith you were handed is too small for the woman God made you to be, you’re in the right place.
They love God, but they are exhausted by the systems, the ceilings, and the constant pressure to shrink.
Whether you are just starting to ask, "Is it just me?" or you’ve already walked out the door and are looking for what comes next, I have built a path for you.
Find where you are below, and let’s begin.
You feel a quiet unrest. You’re tired of the guilt, the people-pleasing, and the feeling that you’re 'too much' for your church but 'not enough' for God. You need to know you aren’t crazy.
Your First Steps:
Read: Don’t Ask for Permission or Awake. These will help you name the cage you’ve been living in.
Listen: The In His Presence Podcast. Start with episodes on spiritual gaslighting and reclaiming your identity.
Explore: The Blog. Search for "Awful to Awe-filled" to find daily help for the anxiety that comes with waking up.
You’ve named the problem. Now you want the solution. You want substantive teaching, a guide who doesn't pull punches, and a community of women who are done with the 'polite' version of faith.
Your Next Step:
The Extraordinary Woman Letter: This is my monthly mentorship circle. It’s where we do the deep work of spiritual formation, unmediated by patriarchy. It includes a monthly letter and three live Zoom calls where we talk about the things no one else is saying.
You are a high-capacity woman who has reached the end of herself. You’ve realized that surface-level changes aren't enough. You want to go to the root, heal the trauma, and rebuild your life from the ground up.
Your Deepest Step:
The Connected Heart Project: This is my signature 1-on-1 intensive. For three months, you are my singular focus. We do the deep, clinical, and pastoral work required to set you fully free. I only take one client per month.

I spent years inside the same systems you’re navigating. I have the PhD and the MDiv, but more importantly, I have the scars and the stories of what it takes to walk into the sunlight.
I don’t want to manage your symptoms. I want to witness your liberation.
I’ve written over 25 books and spent 25 years in the trenches with women just like you. I know the way out. I’d be honored to show you.
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I couldn’t believe how much I’d been trying to carry alone. Kim helped me break through it all, find peace, and create a life I didn’t know was possible. I’m forever grateful.
God used Kim to bring me back from the brink. I’m healed, whole, and living with joy once again.
After Dr. Kim walked us through the memory of the past and invited the Lord's perspective, I not only discovered the truth about myself but also experienced freedom, peace, and encouragement for a future full of HOPE! It is incredible how that transformation happened so quickly with full resolve! Who the Son sets free is truly FREE indeed!
Take a breath. You don't have to figure it all out today. Just take the next step that feels like freedom.
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